Sarcasm has its place in humor, but it can be a double-edged sword. You need to be aware of the potential impact of sarcasm on the audience because it can affect your likability.

Think about the friends you enjoy spending time with – they’re likely fun, positive, and it feels good to be around them. On the other hand, negative friends or those who complain are often emotionally draining. A positive, likable personality creates a comfortable experience, while people with a personality that is ruled by sarcasm generally have fewer friends.

Certainly sarcasm has a place. A sarcastic sense of humor can be entertaining, but being a sarcastic person can be off-putting. It’s crucial to strike the right balance.

Sarcasm can cause people to feel put down. This is especially true for women, who use humor to connect and bond, while it’s more common for male humor to include put-downs, humiliations, verbal duels, and practical jokes.

A Psychology Today article– Think Sarcasm is Funny? Think Again — author Clifford Lazarus Ph.D. said this about it:

An occasional dash of sarcastic wit can spice up a chat and add an element of humor, but

there’s a thin line between using sarcasm as an advantage and having it damage your brand.

That’s why there must be a “tell”. The audience must recognize you're making a joke. Put a smile and an eye twinkle in your voice or the audience will likely interpret it as mean.

I still remember a cringe-worthy moment on a radio show playing a trivia quiz. The host asked a question about Ellen DeGeneres (it was her birthday). Both listeners got the questions wrong. His reaction:

"Boy, you guys are real Ellen DeGeneres experts, aren’t you?"

Neither laughed. It came off as judgmental rather than welcoming and playful. Sarcasm can be a powerful humor tool if used carefully and in moderation. However, it has to be laugh-out-loud fun. Otherwise, it just sounds bitter and who wants to listen to that?

Keep this in mind when you build a character brand profile. A sarcastic sense of humor can be a benefit, but a sarcastic personality could prevent you from ever getting traction. 

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